Vocal Massage Should Not 'HURT'
No pain no.... NO NEED! (in my opinion)
Vocal Massage is still considered a
relatively
new therapy to those outside of the manual therapy world, but it's actually been around for years!!!
The one thing that I constantly battle with is peoples misunderstanding about what it feels like, or what it should feel like. Some people truly believe that it's horrific and painful. What's even more scary is that people believe that it has to be in order to be effective. I've actually heard people brag about it - like it's some badge of honour that they survived?!
Now, everyone has their own opinion on this (and not just when it comes to Vocal Massage either), but I wholeheartedly disagree and think that this couldn't be further from the truth. Why?
Well firstly, a good therapist should communicate to the client at all times during a session of any therapy. They should be communicating verbally to ensure their comfort, to work with the client in order to establish areas that they feel need attention, and also to gather more information about that person and their symptoms. They should also be looking for non-verbal communication from the client - unconscious and conscious reactions to what they are doing. These might be one or more of the following - a client holding their breath, gritting their teeth, squeezing their eyes closed, clenching fists, flinches etc etc. These all give indications of how a client is receiving the treatment.
So, if a treatment is painful you will certainly exhibit some non-verbals. If your therapist is ignoring them and not communicating to you, then are they fully aware of what they're doing; do they see a treatment as one-sided and that they are the expert and know exactly what you need and what you can tolerate?
Secondly, if someone causes you pain what happens? What is your response likely to be? Would you lay down and relax, and let them continue to cause you pain? Absolutely not in most cases. You would more than likely start to (even subconsciously) defend yourself. I don't mean physically lashing out, but certainly most peoples response to painful manual therapy is to tense up, brace themselves, and sometimes hold their breath. All very natural responses to pain and things we're not comfortable with.
So I guess we need to ask ourselves; why are we having manual therapy? Most of the time it's likely that one of the reasons is because you're in pain or some level of discomfort already, or you feel like you need help to RELAX muscles and structures that you feel symptoms of tightness and/or restrictions in. Would having someone man-handle you make you relax? Does causing pain to an already uncomfortable/painful area make it less painful?
Would you really feel relaxed and invigorated after such a session; or simply just relieved that you can now relax because you and your larynx aren't being 'attacked'?
I have to stress that these are my opinions and I am sure a number of people will disagree - that's fine. The thing is, everyone has their own preferences when it comes to administering and receiving manual therapy, and that's okay too. The worlds big enough for all of us, but for me personally, manual therapy shouldn't be painful and it doesn't make sense to me that it should be either. I am not saying that there will never
be moments of discomfort during Vocal Massage, (it's inevitable) but discomfort
and pain
are two very different things.
Discomfort in my dictionary is 'bearable' for a period of time. Discomfort is manageable. You can experience discomfort for a short time without tensing, bracing or 'running away'. And this is why I communicate continuously with all my clients both verbally and non-verbally. If I see non-verbal cues mentioned above, I will always question - 'are you okay?' 'would you like me to stop?' 'can you bare with this level of discomfort for a little longer?'. They (the client) are in the driving seat no matter how much of an expert I think I am, or how much pain I think they can and should tolerate. Manual therapy of any kind should be a two way street, and in my book never painful.
My last question to you would be - if you could achieve the same (and potentially better) results without going through pain; which would you choose? I know what I would do.


